Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Stevie and Katrina



This is my BFF with his fiance, Katrina. He popped the question at the beginning of the month and they are going to be married on 22nd April 2008. They have asked Eva to be a Flower Girl and she said "yeah!". They also asked me to be Best man, which of course I said yes to and am very proud and honoured to do.

In other news, I officially becmae a student of Queens University Belfast today when I registered my classes. Things get going this weekend with an induction retreat for all ministerial students - thats me!!

More to come soon.

I promise.

Blessings

Sunday, September 02, 2007

Another Chapter Beginning

I have officially lost track of how long it is since I updated, but I am sure it is almost two full months because it is that long since we returned from Florida. Since returning life has been hectic enough, especially in the last month.

Margaret's work has been crazy for her as she has had to cover some of her colleague's work as they have been on annual leave. This on top of her already full schedule has made August a hard month.

On a brighter note, I got my A Level result in the middle of the month and I achieved a A grade. This means that I am now officially ready to go in terms of my Degree studies and ministerial training at Queens University in Belfast - woo hoo!!!

Just before I had that result, we got a very cool visit from John, Renee, Megan and Sarah. We had a good time hosting them for a couple of nights in Belfast before heading up to Portrush to visit some of the cool sites up there. It was a good time to reconnect with them again and also to meet sarah, John's Grand-daughter that we had not previously met.

So as I sit here now typing this, Margaret, Eva and I are getting ready to begin a new chapter in our lives again. This one will be harder for us to adjust to as it will involve both Margaret and I being involved in full time academic or professional lives since before we had Eva. Perhaps the biggest adjustment will have to be made by Eva as she gets used to not having one of us around most of the time. Margaret will have to get used to not having her househusband having dinner on the table at night when she gets in from work. I will have to get used to studying full time and work out how to still be a good house husband even though I am not at home full time any more. We covet your prayers in this time of change and adjustment. I look forward to letting you know how things are.

The last 18 months since returning from Florida have been major for us as we have worked to this point of me starting my actual training. Each day, week and month has been a lesson in the loving grace of God and all of it has been a massive lesson in trusting God and in God's timing of things. When I started the A Level, I did not want to do it and I saw it as a year I had to waste before getting on with degree studies. However, it has been nothing but good for me and I have realised that I needed this year to make the step into academic life again and to get to know myself better in preparation for ordained ministry. God knows better than us and that's what we have to keep focussed on.

Blessings

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Back home at the beach - can you tell?

 
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Jump in!

 
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Flying high

 
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Miss Two-Shoes

 
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Eva and Nene

 
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Mischief x 2

 
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BFF's...just like our Mum's

 
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Happy Birthday Eva...again!!!

 
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Posing BFF's

 
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Daddy's girl

 
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Fountain fun

 
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Too cool!!

 
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Charles Family

 
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Smile!

 
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God daughter and God parents

 
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Eva, Erin and Emma

 
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Eva and her cousin Erin

 
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The last couple of months have been extremely hectic. Since the end of May I have finished my exams and we have all been on holiday together, I have celebrated my 29th birthday and had a couple of preaching engagements.

The exams went well. I got asked all the questions I wanted and felt prepared for them, the only thing that might come up a bit short is my essay writing technique and an inability to recall quotations on the day. I just hope that I will get what I need in terms of grades to get me into Queens this September.

Our holiday was amazing. It was the first time that we have returned to Florida together since leaving there in March 2006. I never thought that I would be quite as emotional on my own return to the place. When we left in march 06, I was very focussed on what we were coming home for and very ready to be around family and old friends again and as a result, I never noticed how much I was missing it. However, when we returned this time I found that much of my own heart is still in Florida and realized just how much I miss living there.

We started out spending a few days in St Augustine with Ron, Jen and Kate and this was just a good time to relax and reconnect with them. We took Eva to the beach in her cute little sunsuit (see pictures - and it is okay to think she is wearing a deep sea diving wet suit!!!!) and had a wonderful time there. At first Eva did not like the water but she got more and more brave in her Daddy's arms and by the end of the day was sitting at the ocean's edge having the waves splash over her. Eva had obviously missed Kate because the two of them clicked together like they had been sisters all their lives - they both had immense fun on the beach splashing each other and playing with kate's beach toys.

Then it was back to Port St Lucie and for the next 2 1/2 weeks we spent time with some cherished friends. The Conant's had made the trip back from Georgia and it was very cool to see them on The Wednesday night at church. Asa and I rejoined the band in church and we had a bit of a jam with a few songs and it really was like we had never been away. Margaret and I were really blessed to stand as God parents for Trinity when she was baptized the following Sunday. Asa and I were able to get together again at the invitation of Gary Stannis to go fishing on his boat. We had an amazing time (in between me being violently sea sick!!!) and even caught a couple of fish. It was nice to get some good time with Asa and catch up with each other. I miss him a lot.

Others that we got to connect with were our American parents John and Renee, our close friends the Skinner's, the Szymczyk's (Sim-check's), the Fox's, Allan, the guys from youth and so many more - too many to mention specifically. I played golf a few times with Ron and his Dad which was also a lot of fun (if not a bit disgraceful in terms of my scores!!!) Mostly though, our trip was just a good time to relax and chill out as a family with our best friends Ron and Jen. The let us invade their lives completely for three weeks and never complained once - well not to us anyways!!! Since we lived in Florida, Ron and his Dad have been hard at work and they now have a big deck which we had a great time sitting and lying out on. Ron and Jen now also have a boat and we got out on the river a couple of times in Fort Pierce. Both times the water was so clear and the weather was perfect. Good times!!!!!

Since coming back life has not slowed down. Margaret was straight back into work and life very quickly has got back to normal. We had Stevie's surprise 30th birthday party at the end of June and then my 29th in the second week of July. For my birthday this year I got a bit of a treat in Florida in the form of a new guitar similar to the one we bought for Ron before leaving last year. I have been covetting it ever since we got it for him and now I have one of my own. It is a stunning, hand made Timberline 12 string guitar and it sounds beautiful. On my actual birthday Margaret got me a lovely couples picture frame with our pictures in it and an engraved personal message. It's very cool indeed.

One more thing I wanted to mention was Bailey Swager's mission trip. You might not know who Bailey is. She was in our youth group in Florida and has since decided that she wants to give up a year of her life to go on a missions trip. This September she will be going to Swaziland in Africa to work with an organization as a Christian Missionary. As her old Youth Pastor and her friends, Margaret and I are really proud of her and would love you to join us in praying for her and supporting her as she undertakes this big project in her life. Also if you want to support her in any other way i.e. financially, I am sure she would love that too. Bailey is a girl who in my humble opinion gets what it is to follow Jesus - she is giving of herself for others less fortunate in life than herself. In Scripture, Old and New Testaments, God constantly says that being one of his people means looking out for those that are in poverty and illness and grief in life. Bailey is getting that and that's cool. What is also cool is that she is not alone, lots of youth from our old church undertook missions trips this summer and took part in VBS. On top of this the adults in the church are getting it also that God's call is to 'go' and look out for those who need you. It is a very exciting time for mission at FUMC in Port St Lucie. You can check Bailey's journey out on www.baileyswager.myadventures.org

I think I have written enough for now, Eva needs bathed and dressed. I will add some pictures of our trip later.

Blessings